Life is extremely complicated. You'll find that for me, it has been no different. I think it is so important, especially with the things going on in today's world, to stop and think about all that we've conquered. Whether they're big or small, bad or good. No life event is less significant than another if it has changed your life or impacted it in some way. For this reason, I've decided to launch this segment called 'HI Life' on the blog.
Why HI Life? Essentially, we're saying hello to life. The good and the bad, the happy and the sad. To make it even better? It's a segment written by the members of the Heard It Community and I, that's what makes me so proud of it. Sadly, it's not the Hawaiian Life, but it's certainly the high life. So welcome to the HI Life, where every week, I will feature someones story. Uninterrupted, the way they want to tell it.
This week, we start with the beautiful and lovely Lisa Hoptroff of Thirtysoemthing Belle. Lisa is a British lifestyle blogger out of the UK and here is her story.
Exclusive HI Life Forward
I wanted to share my story with you. Tragic? Yes. However my main reasoning behind writing this was also to show that you CAN get through anything - I promise! Even the worst,most devastating moments of your life DO get better with time. Everything changes and the dark times pass. Keeping a positive point of view is so very important and an almost stubborn determination not to 'sink' helps too.
Lisa's Story
Death. That one little word that sums up so many emotions. Heartbreak, love, memories, shock, injustice, anger, fear. For many, we cannot imagine losing the people closest to us. For some, it is a sad reality we have to brave.
My fiancé died. There, I said it. Today should have been our 7 year anniversary. I want to give you an insight into this significant part of my life and the months that followed. Whenever the topic arises, the awkward atmosphere swiftly follows. It's a conversation that nobody really knows how to have (including me) yet many are curious about so here goes...